Travel

i guess it's another transforming stage of mine, starting to feel...the urge to travel...
i'm not the kind of person who likes to travel, really, it's probably something not good about me, i tend to settle down everywhere i go, not wanting to go further...
well it's exam season, again the stress comes, how do i know? my nose and my eyes tell me exactly, flu and red eyes are my everyday companies now, instead of books, oh my.....
looking at other people's photo is quite enjoyable, if i do it selectively of course, and i didn't realize that after adding some friends in facebook, the photo albums in my account suddenly become so many, and yeah, i was looking at photos, of other people, at different places...
feng ee once said that, the world is so big, it's just so sad if one cannot go around and have a look, while this may not be affordable to everyone, i think i'm feeling what she feels....

grow up

how long has it been since the last time you stumbled?i'm not referring to deadlines of assignments,failure of tests,but rather,times that you think you failed in your life,that you probably need to admit that you're,after all,not that mature,and need some feedback on yourself?
some people are just born to be fortunate,in every aspects of their lives,sounds familiar?because they are everywhere,younger generations have become more and more pampered,more importantly,thanks to the previous generations that after they've gone through the pains in their lives,they've done REALLY A LOT just to make sure us,the younger generation to avoid the so called "unnecessary" pains and to take the fastest shortcut to reach the desired destination in life....
people are getting smarter generation by generation,it's true that things are different for each and every generation,but no pain no gain is,erm...something very true....
"to grow up physically is a must,to grow up mentally is an option",quote from a friend,not sure if it's quoted from someone else or his own creation,anyway,is it really a blessing to stay young and childish?so that you can stay away from worries and stress?while the saying "a person's meat might be another person's poison" is very true,those who are lucky enough to extend their years of being young and childish a little bit longer,could very well be a blessing for themselves,it's just that,other than it being a disaster to people around them,it could also,require much bigger price than they can ever imagined....

感觉

年轻人，似乎都忽略了时间的威力，似乎都不明白，相处的真正意义。。。
一颗星的陨落，代表着更多颗星的升起，只是，你和我，都不愿意成为陨落的那一颗。。。。
要怎么样，才能算是了解一个人？一年？两年？十年？一百年？时间，在这一刻对我来说，已经不是一个可靠的尺度，来衡量，来推断，所谓的，对人的了解。
看过患上双重性格这种精神疾病的人吗？或许，我不应该称之为精神疾病，天知道世上到底有多少人都拥有着不止两面的性格？你身边的人有多少个？你每天新认识的人有多少个？或许不能说是数之不尽，但也很少人会真正的深究这个问题。但是，你身边有多少人，你觉得了解他？这看起来容易回答许多。。。
真的吗？再想想吧！有时候，我反而会觉得，前者容易答得多，需要的只是时间，但是答案却是绝对的；反观后者，我敢说，世上决少数的人，能够给你一个肯定的答案，除非你是他身上的一条毛。
太难了，太多了。太难了解一个人了，太多的性格层面存在于每一个人的深层意识里了。人与人的相处，仿佛都因为不同的关系，而存在着一种最佳距离。这种距离因人而异，距离太远了，关系很难维持；距离太近了，却又互相排斥。。。
你觉得身边的某人很完美？再观察吧！你觉得身边的另一些人糟透了？可能吧！只是，说不定有一天扶你一把的，会是这一些所谓糟透的人。
朋友，逐渐成为城市人的我们，变得越来越孤单，感觉，来得越来越快，年纪越来越长了，或许，再也不是意气用事的时候了，再也不能说，感觉到，什么都到。